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How They Meditate – Sayadaw U Tejaniya (Guided Meditation)
September 6, 2026Last Updated on October 1, 2026 by Matthew Sockolov
If you’ve heard the teaching, “no mud, no lotus,” you perhaps have been reading some Thich Nhat Hanh. Imagine the lotus. It grows in murky water. From this muddy base, a beautiful lotus flower rises up and blooms. It’s a powerful image, and a reminder of the potential for growth we all have.
The essence of this teaching is that growth, understanding, compassion, and awakening can be borne from the muddiness of suffering. We don’t need to eliminate suffering completely to find peace, and can use difficult or painful experiences as catalysts for transformation.
The Origin of “No Mud, No Lotus”
As far as I can tell, Thich Nhat Hanh began using this teaching in his early days teaching mindfulness at Sweet Potato, his original practice center outside Paris in the 1970s. He used it in various talks and books, and eventually wrote a book with this title that was published in 2014.
The phrase became quite popular for its powerful illustration of how we can transform suffering into liberation. Just as the lotus needs the thick mud at the bottom of the pond to blossom fully, we need to learn to navigate difficulties in order to cultivate our own inner beauty.
The Mud
The mud can represent dukkha in many forms. It may be grief, fear, anger, anxiety, sadness, or whatever other form of suffering arises. These experiences are part of life. As the Buddha said in his teaching on the Five Remembrances, we should know that old age, sickness, and death are a part of life for all of us.
The mud isn’t something to be avoided, and neither is the suffering. It’s part of life. We often hold onto the idea in our heads that we need to escape the suffering in order to find any peace. This teaching tells us no, the mud is part of the conditions that pave the way for a healthy practice.
The Lotus
The lotus represents the growth of practice. It may be peace, understanding, wisdom, compassion, freedom, or awakening. In the case of Thich Nhat Hanh, this may arise simply as an appreciation for everyday life. Much as the lotus grows from the mud, we can use the suffering of life to transform difficulties into liberation.
It’s important to note that the teaching is not that suffering automatically leads to freedom. The lotus doesn’t just bloom. It’s with awareness, compassion, and continual practice that we take care of our lotus buds and create the space for them to bloom.

Why the Mud Needs the Lotus
I think it’s important to recognize the source and context of a teaching. As we cover in the episode of the podcast about Thich Nhat Hanh, he was a strong activist for many years in Vietnam. He saw quite a bit of suffering, and had more than his fair share. In my opinion, his insights on this matter are quite interesting.
Learning About Ourselves
Suffering is a part of the human experience. Learning to observe the ways in which we experience dukkha can lead to a great understanding. Meditating with anger might give us insight to the underlying hurt, expectations, or desire to control. Practicing with anxiety can give us insight into the nature of craving and aversion.
As Sayadaw U Tejaniya reminds us constantly, we should observe these difficult experiences with a mind that has the right attitude. We are not to push them away or meet them with resistance. The suffering, or the mud, gives us space to learn and see things clearly if we take the opportunity.
The Role of Compassion
Suffering gives us the opportunity to cultivate karuna, or compassion. The suffering we experience is an opportunity to cultivate this important quality on the path. Furthermore, touching the suffering we experience can give us an increased capacity to show up with compassion for others. Although it may be painful, we can use it as the ground to grow the beautiful lotus of caring for others.
Impetus for Practice
I don’t think we necessarily need suffering in order to practice, but it often serves as the impetus for many peoples’ practice. When everything is going well, we may have a tendency to become lazy or complacent with the practice. When there’s a moment or period of suffering, it can serve as a type of fuel for the practice.

So Is Suffering Good?
No. This is a common misunderstanding. This teaching is not telling us to seek out suffering, stay in situations that are dangerous or unhealthy, or that every moment of heartbreak or tragedy has a silver lining. We must be careful not to spiritually bypass with this teaching. We also shouldn’t take this as an encouragement to lean in toward suffering and wallow in it.
Instead, the teaching is telling us that we can use the suffering to the benefit of ourselves and others. We all experience suffering; we don’t need to go looking for it or try to create it. Instead, we can recognize it as fertile ground for the lotus of our awareness and compassion.
Applying this Teaching
Like many of Thich Nhat Hanh’s teachings, we are encouraged to actually practice with this in daily life. I could go through countless examples here. The essence really is in how we related to suffering. This is similar to what Sayadaw U Tejaniya teaches, and is one of the reasons we did the How They Meditate series. We wanted to offer some perspective in the way others teach and practice, how they may be similar, and how they differ.
As a first example, let’s take the experience of anxiety. We often meet moments of anxiety with some sort of feeling that we need to stop feeling anxious. Instead, we can remember the simple teaching of no mud, no lotus. Can you become curious about the anxiety? What does it feel like in the mind and body? Can you meet it with an awareness that is whole and not tainted by craving or aversion? We can do this with many forms of difficult or painful emotions.
Continuing with this example, how do we then meet somebody experiencing anxious feelings? Do we tell them they need to stop feeling anxious? No! We are able to meet them with compassion, patience, and awareness. We might share our experience, offer a practice that helped us, or just be present with them.
Whenever we’re faced with a form of suffering, the first question in my opinion can be, “How is the mind relating to this?” This can help us see the resistance, aversion, or craving present. It can come up in so many ways. When we watch for the defilements in the mind like this, we’re able to see them as just mental objects and actually be with the dukkha fully. In this way, we are watering little lotus seeds!





