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Dukkha is one of those words in Buddhism that I find to be misunderstood by many. We hear teachings like “life is suffering” or something similar. This is an attempt to translate the First Noble Truth, but really isn’t accurate for many reasons.
My intention here is to explain a bit about what the word dukkha actually means, its context in the Four Noble Truths, and a bit about how we understand this teaching in our daily lives. As with many Buddhist teachings, this is something to be known and understood from experience. My encouragement to you is to actually investigate dukkha in your own life.

What Does Dukkha Mean?
The Pali word dukkha simply doesn’t have a perfect English equivalent. The word itself comes from the roots du- (bad) and kha- (empty space). It originally referred to the bad axle hole of a cart or chariot. Imagine you are on a chariot with a lopsided axle hole. The ride is bumpy, and uncomfortable. It may not be intense suffering, but there is dis-ease or discomfort especially as time goes on.
We most often use the word suffering in English when talking about dukkha, but this doesn’t necessarily give a clear picture of what the word itself means. When I teach during our online group or in private meditation classes, I try to use the word dukkha itself as I don’t think there is any translation that quite hits the mark.
Some of the translations that I find more accurate than suffering include dis-ease, stress, and unsatisfactoriness. This last one especially points toward the nature of dukkha in my opinion. Experience is generally unsatisfactory in nature, partially due to the impermanent quality. Dukkha simply doesn’t arise as full-on suffering always; sometimes it is more subtle.
Dukkha and the Four Noble Truths
Understanding dukkha is essential to investigating the Four Noble Truths, one of the most foundational Buddhist teachings. You can read more about the Truths in our post about them, but simply put they are:
- The Truth of Dukkha
- The Cause of Dukkha
- The Cessation of Dukkha
- The Path to Ending Dukkha
The Four Noble Truths are the core the Buddhist path. They outline the issue as the Buddha saw it, the cause of the issue, the possibility of cessation, and how to actually do so. The first truth is where we get the common misunderstanding that “life is suffering.”
The actual teaching never says “life is dukkha” nor “life is suffering.” In the dhammacakkappavattana sutta the Buddha lists multiple things as dukkha, including birth, aging, death, sorrow, lamentation, pain, distress, despair, association with the unbeloved, separation from the loved, and not getting what one wants.
The Four Noble Truths don’t teach us that life is all or only suffering. Instead, they teach that life has plenty of dukkha. There are many different ways dukkha arises, and cessation of the dukkha is possible through practice of the Noble Eightfold Path.

The Three Types of Dukkha
The Buddha taught directly of three different kinds of dukkha we experience. These deserve a deep dive and their own post, and I’m just offering an introduction here.
Dukkha of Dukkha
The first type of dukkha is simply the dukkha of dukkha. In English this is often translated as the suffering of suffering or the suffering of pain. This is normal everyday dukkha caused by things like physical and emotional pain. It includes injuries, sorrow, anger, etc.
Dukkha of Change
The second type is the dukkha of change. This is unsatisfactoriness as it relates to the impermanent nature of experience. It might be the dukkha of a relationship ending or finishing a delicious meal.
Dukkha of Conditioned Existence
The third type is a deeper and more existential dukkha. It comes from clinging to the five aggregates. This dukkha comes from the changing and impermanent nature of all conditioned experience. It is intimately related to the other three marks of existence (non-self and impermanence).

The Cause of Dukkha
It’s helpful to understand not just dukkha, but its causes. According to the Second Noble Truth, the cause of dukkha is craving (taṇhā in Pali). Craving is generally the most common translation, but you might hear clinging, attachment, or grasping. These are actually other terms in Pali, such as raga (attachment/lust).
The suttas also teach us of the Three Poisons (or Three Unwholesome Roots), which are the three root causes of unwholesome action. These are greed (lobha), aversion (dosa), and ignorance (moha). Together, these three unwholesome roots come together to cause craving in a sense. They are causal, whereas craving is more of the clinical presentation.
Does Buddhism Teach Life is Suffering?
So, where does it say that life is suffering in the Buddhist teachings? It doesn’t. Buddhism teaches us that dukkha is a part of life for humans. We all experience it. It has causes (craving), and a solution (The Noble Eightfold Path). Everything is not dukkha either. We have plenty of moments of joy, appreciation, and mindful wisdom.

Dukkha in Everyday Life
So far this has been a lot of theory and digging into Buddhist teachings, and I want to focus a bit more on how dukkha arises in actual everyday life.
Wanting a Different Experience
Generally, dukkha arises as some way of wanting a different experience. We are standing in line at the grocery store and want the line to be shorter. Or we have the simple thoughts of “I’ll be happy when I get X,” or “I’ll be okay when I experience Y.” We can describe this experience of dukkha in many ways, but I really think it’s simply wanting things to be different than they currently are.
I have endless examples for how this can look. Common ones are wanting the workday to end, wishing the weather were different, waiting for the weekend to arrive, and quite literally wishing we were somewhere else. In meditation, it may be a wishing the mind would calm down or concentrate rather than being with the mind as it is.
Straight Craving
The clear experience of craving is often one of the places we can most easily see dukkha. We crave a new house, new car, a partner, more money, status, etc. If you tune in to your experience in these moments, you’ll often feel the dukkha quite clearly. We’re leaning toward something and there’s an inherent dis-ease to this experience.
Furthermore, we can look at the unwholesome root of greed, which is closely linked to craving. Greed is the mental state of wanting and attachment. When our actions come from greed, we have the potential to cause further dukkha. We feed greed, can end up in addiction, ignore consequences, and lose sight of our practice and care for others.
Aversion
Aversion is actually the other side of the coin of craving. It’s the desire to push away or distance ourselves from unpleasant experiences. It can arise as anger or agression, hatred, or a shutting down. Think about it like this: any time you are in aversion, you are essentially craving to be free from something. In this way, we can really see craving and aversion as very similar experiences.
Where craving is generally for more pleasant experiences, aversion relates to unpleasant ones. We want traffic to move more quickly, the anxiety to go away now, and to be rid of this nagging pain in the knee. This relates to the teaching that pain is inevitable but suffering is optional. How we respond (aversion) to unpleasant experiences is where the dukkha sits.
General Restlessness or Discontentment
In some sense, we often feel that something is missing. We don’t like being bored. When we do have minimal stimulation, we become restless. We begin scrolling on our phone, thinking in unhelpful ways, or maybe feel guilty for relaxing. This basic discontentment is the dukkha of the mind not sitting with restlessness.
The Dukkha of Impermanence
As mentioned in the dukkha of change, impermanence causes dukkha in our lives quite often. Rather, the clinging to impermanent experiences causes dukkha. We feel sad when a vacation ends, when our kids grow up, when our favorite restaurant closes, or when the sunset is over and the sun disappears below the sea.
Pleasant experiences are pleasant. There’s no denying that. But when we cling to them, we create dukkha. We don’t recognize and truly know the truth of impermanence, and create suffering by clinging to things that are sure to change.

Working with Dukkha
The Buddha very clearly prescribed the Noble Eightfold Path as the way to end suffering. In the West, we focus so much on the practice of mindfulness and meditation. But this is really only a small portion of the teachings. I encourage you to actually look at the factors of the path other than just mindfulness. Here are a few things you can do to begin working with dukkha in your life.
Mindfulness Practice
Of course mindfulness is a powerful way to work with dukkha. It can be helpful to understand what mindfulness is exactly, as it’s not what many people think. The core prupose of mindfulness practice as outlined in the Four Foundations of Mindfulness is to build insight into the Three Characteristics.
As we work with the body, feeling tones, the mind, and dhammas, we begin to see these marks of existence and stop clinging so strongly. To get started with mindfulness practice, you can check out my Mindfulness for Beginners page, or try out the free 30 day Month of Mindfulness meditation challenge.
Notice Impermanence
To work with dukkha, we must work with craving. One way to do this is to begin looking closely at impermanence in our lives. We can start at a very surface level in seeing impermanence in order to familiarize ourselves with this aspect of reality. Where can you see experience as moving, in a state of flux, or changing?
You might notice the sounds come and go during your day. Sit at a window and watch cars go by. Sit in (or out of) meditation and notice the thoughts arise and pass. When we look, we are often amazed at just how pervasive impermanence is in our lives. This understanding of impermanence helps us not cling and crave, as we know things aren’t going to last anyway.
Loosen Your Grip
Ajahn Chah’s teaching centered on letting go, and it’s great advice for practice. However, letting go is easier said than done sometimes. Instead of aiming for a full-on letting go, we can aim to little-by-little loosen our grips. We don’t need to fully let go; we just need to loosen the grip of craving a little bit to lessen dukkha a little bit.
Notice where you cling or contract. Are there times during your days where you get tense and want things to be a certain way? Do you get stuck on getting or having something in particular? See if you can just loosen a tiny bit rather than seeking to let go completely.
Develop Compassion
We are all subject to dukkha. The Buddhist practice of karuna, or compassion, can help us tune into this. As we develop compassion, we grow to see just how universal the experience of dukkha is. This helps us not take the dukkha so personally. It’s an aspect of life, just like impermanence or gravity.
Investigate Another Factor
Finally, remember that there are eight factors on the path. Investigate wise speech, and how your words are causing suffering to yourself and others. Or maybe look at wise effort and how you’re spending your time and energy throughout your day. Remember that the Buddha prescribed this eightfold path as the way to end dukkha, not just mindfulness or meditation.





